Neurodiverse family therapy · Programs for late-identified women

Understand the brains in your family — including your own.

Neurodivergent-affirming therapy for families. Programs for late-identified women. We get it, we live it, every day.

Recognition over Resilience

Free · no diagnosis needed · start here

Joanne Hatchard grinning with George, her support bear

Joanne Hatchard — accredited social worker & family therapistWorking with families across Australia since 2018Presenting at Yellow Ladybugs 4 years running

You’ve been told to toughen up for decades.
Better Being Me starts somewhere else.

Recognition. When you understand how your brain — and the brains around you — actually work, life stops being a fight with yourself. Everything at Better Being Me moves through the same three steps:

RecognitionUnderstandingAlignment

Be supported by someone who understands

01

Grief of diagnosis

Whether the diagnosis is yours or your child’s, there is a grieving process — and that’s okay. There is support to help you accept and embrace the neurodivergent brain.

…so you can stop carrying it alone.

02

Living in burnout

It takes a lot of energy to get through the day-to-day demands of the world and other people. Missing the cues, heading into meltdown, living in a constant state of recovery.

…so you can stop living in recovery mode.

03

Fear of isolation

It can feel like no one else could possibly understand. At Better Being Me we get why you want to stim, and why it feels like a rock monkey in your head.

…so you don’t have to do this alone.

You can be understood.
Maybe for the first time.

You can feel safe sharing your inner world. There are three ways in — start wherever fits.

Start free

The ND Life Alignment Quiz

  • Free, five minutes, no diagnosis needed
  • A personalised result — where life fits your brain, and where it fights it
  • A clear next step matched to where you are

Take the quiz

How aligned is your life
with your brain?

FREE

5 minutes · personalised result

Go at your own pace

Programs for late-identified neurodivergent women

For the woman who has spent her life holding everyone else together and is only now being recognised herself.

Self-paced · start anytime

BBMe Foundations

Week 0 plus three pillars matched to the quiz areas. The language for what has been happening, and the first practices that shift it. Your pace, your time.

$397

Learn about Foundations

Cohort · next start 19 October 2026

BBMe Completely

Eight weeks — an orientation week, then the seven C’s from Choice to Connection. For the woman ready to understand her neurodivergence at a deeper level, with Joanne and a cohort who get it.

8-week cohort program

Details for BBMe Completely

“Working with Joanne in the Better Being Me program was incredibly beneficial after my late diagnosis of ADHD and ASD. It helped me understand myself better, feel more supported, and create more ease in my life. … She has a no bullshit approach, which is refreshing.”
— Jasmin, Google review
“Joanne has a brilliant way of helping me genuinely understand myself … and even more, helped me to really, truly, understand my kids — and that’s priceless.”
— Linja, Google review

Monthly Masterclass — $25. One topic, one Monday a month, live on Zoom with the replay if the time doesn’t suit. The easiest paid step into the BBMe world.

See this month’s masterclass

Work with me 1:1

Family therapy for neurodiverse families

Individuals, families and groups — all ages, Australia-wide by telehealth, in person in McLaren Vale. Formal diagnosis isn’t required.

Self-identified is valid.

Joanne, hands on hips, wearing headphones in the sunshine

Since 2018working with families across Australia
4 yearspresenting at Yellow Ladybugs
Nationalconference appearances
Publicpodcast conversations with well-known neurodivergent folk

How it all fits together

The BBMe Method holds the middle. Every way in — quiz, programs, therapy — is a depth of the same framework, from the inside out.

ChoiceCerebralCo-ordinationCopingCalibrationCrazy Cat LadyConnectionSelf & IdentityEmotion & EnergyLife AlignmentRecognitionConnectionUnderstandingTruthComfortThriveTHE CORE BELIEFFrom theinside out.You were never broken.ND Life QuizEntry pointND Life GroupPublic communityTalking TwaddlePodcastWebinarsWarm pathwayBBMe CompletelyCore programmeBBMe CollectiveStudent communityBBMe Therapy1:1 support
Self-directed — find, trust, and begin Structured program — apply and build Direct support — deepen and sustain

More about the BBMe Method

Joanne with her dog

We know how it feels to be misunderstood.

To be shushed. To be laughed over and left confused. To smile and nod just to get through. At Better Being Me there is lived experience, education and understanding.

My son was diagnosed autistic at four. Through his diagnosis, neurodivergence became my special interest — and mapping his world led me to map my own history of meltdown and burnout. My neurodivergence isn’t something to hide. It’s something to embrace.

Better Being Me helps neurodivergent people map their stress behaviour, promotes their awesome, and creates stronger connections with self, family and friends.

Questions, answered straight

Do I need a formal diagnosis?

No. Self-identified is valid. A formal diagnosis is one step you can take — but if you feel aligned, that’s enough to start.

Do I need to be an NDIS participant?

No. Private, plan-managed and self-managed clients are all welcome. Mental Health Care Plans aren’t accepted. Full funding detail lives on the therapy page.

I’m not in South Australia — can we still work together?

Yes. Therapy runs Australia-wide by telehealth, and the programs are fully online. Home and community visits are available around McLaren Vale.

What happens after I take the quiz?

You get a personalised result straight away, with a clear next step matched to where you are — no call required.

What’s the difference between therapy and the programs?

Therapy is 1:1 clinical work with your family and me. The programs are structured self-paced or cohort experiences for late-identified women. Recognition over Resilience runs through both.

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